Here’s a sampling of the topics I frequently discuss:

The message that inspired the book. While it is primarily male-centric, it carries a wealth of wisdom for female audiences to grow from as well. The central premise of this message is, you do not find a spouse by aimless dating, but by putting The Word in your heart like a seed & allowing it to flow out of you as a harvest. You seek your spouse through the scriptures.

In this message Dale discusses:

• How your belief system sets the course for your journey.
• Four truths most people do not understand.
• The set of principles that allow you to receive your God-given spouse.
• How to recognize your future wife when you see her.

Everyone has their laws, rules, regulations, and formulas that you must do – or not do-  to get a man or get a woman. But by doing those things is success guaranteed?

What happens when you’ve done all the right things and avoided the wrong things still to no avail? You end up hurt, frustrated, & disappointed. It appears that others did it wrong & were still successful, while God has forgotten you.

What happens if you’ve done all the wrong things already? Are you doomed to be alone? How do you overcome the baggage that you presently carry with you without always being ridiculed for your faults?

Or, maybe, you feel you’re lacking in certain areas (appearance, financial resources, confidence) and you feel more uncertain as you compare yourself to ‘real men’ & ‘real women’ lists that constantly remind you where you don’t measure up. You always feel you have a never-ending list of things to work on & do.

In this message:

Dale attacks the mindsets that cause you to feel overwhelmed and hopeless because you keep trying to achieve your goal through self-effort; without regard for who God made you, what He’s already done for you, and what He has already given you.

By the end, you will realize there is only ONE thing you MUST DO to find yourself a spouse.

As a man thinks in his heart, so is he. The mind of a man serves as the compass of his life; leading him to or away from the will of God for his life. That’s why the Bible implores us to be renewed in the spirit of our minds. Our picture of ourselves controls us more than our picture of God. Yet, too often we do not place enough emphasis on what’s happening in our minds.

In this message:

• The power of an image. How your life is a mirror of the inner image you possess.
• Engaging your creative ability to create a new set of blueprints to create the life you desire.
• The difference between the conscious & subconscious mind and how they work.
• How what is flowing out of you is affecting your search for a spouse.
• Why whatever you believe is absolutely correct.

Now when it comes to how much I charge to speak. The answer to that question is, what did the Lord tell you to pay me?

I work for Him. So I trust Him to pay to me. I leave it to Him to handle my affairs, while I feed the people. Just remember He’s my authorized agent. So it’s Him you’re dealing with concerning my fee. Ask Him He’ll tell you.

Invite me to speak

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